Sexuality.
The alchemy of sexual energy.
The most powerful engine of your life. The least understood.
“The integrity of sexual energy is the key to prosperity in life.”
Bralgei ShackryWhat is the Alchemy of Sexual Energy?
We are not talking about sex here. We are talking about the most powerful engine of your life. There are thousands of experts in the field of sexuality, but at heart I am a biohacker, driven by efficiency and elegance. Experience comes from practice, from trial and error. I have experimented a lot, made many mistakes, but learned enormously.
There is a phrase that sounds right in English and I am not even sure how to translate it properly into Romanian: “The more you fuck around, the more you know.” Roughly translated: the more you experiment and fail, the more you actually learn.
First we need to understand that sexual energy is the primary engine that fuels three very important activities in our lives. Before we can alchemize or recode it, we need to decode it: what it is, how it works, where we lose it, and how we can optimize it.
The common confusion is simple: we believe that sexual energy is the same thing as sex or sexual activity. In reality, sexual energy is what activates and sustains sexual activity — but far exceeds it. It is like electricity: it powers the light bulb, the refrigerator, and the computer — it is none of those things.
The 3 directions of manifestation
Erotic and sexual activity itself. The most visible form of expression of sexual energy — but not the only one, and not even the most important.
Prosperity is a surplus of energy. Sexual energy not channelled into sex manifests directly in the capacity to generate resources, to be creative, to produce.
The greatest consumer of sexual energy. Unmanaged emotions waste daily resources that we could be directing consciously.
Education about the use of sexual energy is a training that every one of us needs to go through — just as important as reading and writing. I would say it is more important than these. After all, you can survive without reading and writing. But you cannot live without sexuality, money, and emotions. Paradoxically, the current educational system jumps straight to the mental level — and we pay an enormous price for this gap.
How did society decide that it is more important for us to train our minds without first training our physical and emotional selves?
The alchemy of sexual energy is a concept that raises an alarm about a major mistake we make as a society: we jumped directly to the mental level without understanding how a human being actually functions. And we pay a very high price for this mistake.
Paradoxically, the lessons at the foundation of this workshop are as old as the world itself, but they have been forgotten or ignored. The Recoding of Sexual Energy aims to bring all these simple secrets back to light — to realign us with the creative energy of the Universe.
What is sexual energy?
Sexual energy is the fundamental energy of the Universe. It is the energy coded at its base as love — the energy that makes everything grow and multiply. This energy was born from solitude or from boredom. As surprising as this aspect of the energy of love may seem, it is equally powerful in its original coding. Yes, boredom can be one of the most powerful forces in the Universe — the force that became love, multiplication, creation — which we often confuse with sexuality simply because we do not understand the intimate nature of the Universe at its base.
The Fibonacci sequence — 1, 2, 3, 5, 8, 13 — describes exactly this fundamental coding. Everything in the Universe follows this model when it comes to proportion and evolution. Nothing is random. Sexual energy has coded within it the most important aspect of life: PURPOSE. Without purpose, nothing happens in the Universe. And the original purpose is LIFE itself and its multiplication at every level.
And we are simply a multicell. A larger cell made up of smaller cells, identically coded, which have learned to perform different functions. At its core, the cell is driven forward by the same force of love, or sexual energy. Sexual energy is the energy of life whose only purpose is life itself.
Dopamine — the neurotransmitter associated with motivation, creativity, and reward — plays a critical role in both sexual behaviour and financial motivation. fMRI study (PMC7360589): elevated dopamine and reduced serotonin increase activity in the right caudate nucleus and left anterior insula — the same regions activated by both erotic and financial rewards. Money and sex literally activate the same neural circuit.
(Dr. Robert Sapolsky, Stanford: “Testosterone and dopamine directly impact ambition and the capacity to achieve goals.”)
Why do we confuse sexual energy
with sexual activity itself?
The common confusion we make is simple. We believe that sexual energy is the same thing as sex or sexual activity. In reality, sexual energy is what activates and sustains sexual activity. Things are a little more complex and we will clarify them step by step.
It is very true that sexual activity is directly connected to sexual energy, but as mentioned, sexual energy sustains far more than just sexuality. Also, sexual activity can either deplete sexual energy or feed it. It depends on how you use sexual activity in your daily life. Many concrete and practical aspects will be detailed throughout this course.
Sexual energy is a form of primary energy. We also call it essence, or sexual essence.
Part of this energy comes from the prenatal energy we are born with. This is our primordial gift — the endowment a being brings to the planet. Some beings possess more sexual energy, others less. Another small part of the essence is inherited from parents — part from the mother, part from the father. Invariably, they cede a portion of their own essence at the moment of conception. It cannot be otherwise.
The amount of essence a being is born with is directly proportional to the genetic and spiritual reserves with which it is endowed. This sexual energy can increase or decrease depending on lifestyle and the choices each person makes throughout life.
In the first years of life, the essence/sexual energy is very high. Children have very powerful sexual energy, even if it does not manifest directly at the emotional or financial level. Little by little, as we grow, these 3 aspects I keep mentioning become balanced.
“Children pay their bills”
For many of us, unfortunately, the belief that children are financially free is completely false — and it could not be otherwise, because in the Universe NOTHING IS FREE. Yes, we all pay our bills one way or another.
I want to demolish a deeply rooted myth: Parents pay for children’s needs = FALSE. Children have a surplus of sexual energy that they do not use in sexual activity. A large portion of this energy is transferred to those who take care of their needs. In the Universe NOTHING IS FREE. We all pay our bills one way or another. Stop viewing children merely as “resource drains” — they are simultaneously sources of energy.
What does it mean to learn to use your sexual energy
to optimally fuel all 3 sources?
If I have managed to shake you up sufficiently, it means what we have done so far is working — it means I have set you thinking about reevaluating the importance of sexual energy and how it can be used in our lives. And if I have achieved that, we need to move forward and get to some practical matters you can apply. After all, the purpose of this course is to give us practical information through which we can accumulate or optimize sexual energy, regardless of what direction we want to give it in its practical expression. We need more energy to manage emotions, to make more money, to bring more prosperity into our lives; we need a more fulfilling, more intense, more balanced sexual life. Now we need to understand how this sexual energy actually works in practice, where we lose it, and how we can recover and increase it. It is not complicated, but because we have never framed the question this way, we have never been able to do anything special in this direction.
How does sexual energy work?
Input — Output — Multiplication
Like any form of energy manifested in the Universe, sexual energy follows basic laws. ENERGY MUST CIRCULATE. Energy that stands still stagnates — like water. Input is what you introduce into the system. Output is what comes out. Multiplication is the resultant — and in a well-managed system, it happens almost automatically.
The Input — what you introduce into the system
At the start, you need to introduce a very large amount of energy into yourself. In children, an immense amount of sexual energy manifests because the body needs it to develop in a very rapid and exponential way.
What can we do to increase the amount of energy that enters us? Expand the channels through which energy can access us — the “vessel and liquid” metaphor: you can either enlarge the vessel or release some of the liquid already in the vessel you have available to make room.
- Expand the channels through which energy can access you
- Multiply energy sources (“feed at more sources”)
- Sustain more children who charge you up
- Build a tribe (team) that energizes you
- Free yourself from limited thinking about energy in the Universe
- Work on the quality of energy — more refined sources
- Biohacking techniques, supplementation and practices
What comes out of the system, or from processing and using sexual energy, is just as important as the Input. There is no smoke without fire and it is normal to allow smoke to escape, otherwise it kills the fire in closed systems. You eat and you inevitably eliminate waste. Every form of energy transforms and produces another type of residual energy. Once used, energy needs to disperse, to circulate.
- Constantly cleanse the waste elimination systems
- Disperse excess energy
- Take breaks — allow energy to re-enter the system
- What consumes you must not exceed the resources that fuel you
- Minimize losses (the “sieve” metaphor)
- Cultivate the environment into which you release residual energy
- Optimize energy use within the system
The problem in the Universe — and in our case — is not the energy, or the energy source, but the fact that we waste it in a far greater quantity than we receive. And so we come to the Output. That is where the problem usually lies.
The 7 developmental matrices
How sexual energy develops throughout life
How does sexual energy develop throughout life?
Sexual energy is a form of primary energy. We also call it essence, or sexual essence.
Part of this energy comes from the prenatal energy we are born with. This is our primordial gift — the endowment a being brings to the planet. Some beings possess more sexual energy, others less. Another small part of the essence is inherited from parents — part from the mother, part from the father. Invariably, they cede a portion of their own essence at the moment of conception. It cannot be otherwise.
The amount of essence a being is born with is directly proportional to the genetic and spiritual reserves with which it is endowed. This sexual energy can increase or decrease depending on lifestyle and the choices each person makes throughout life.
In the first years of life, the essence/sexual energy is very high. Children have very powerful sexual energy, even if it does not manifest directly at the emotional or financial level. Little by little, as we grow, these 3 aspects I keep mentioning become balanced.
The physical body crystallizes at a phenomenal speed. The fundamental rule: MAXIMUM PLEASURE — MINIMUM PAIN. Remember this phrase — it is the fundamental coding we carry our entire lives. Let children play as much as possible.
The energy body — made up of millions of energy pathways (meridians/Nadi). Traditional Chinese Medicine and Ayurveda have worked with these channels for thousands of years.
Between 18–21 years of age, the body reaches the maximum number of positive essence nuclei it can generate — nuclei it will draw from for the rest of life. Early sexual activity consumes essence before it has fully formed.
Emotional maturation. A critical transfer takes place: you stop feeding energy to those who produced money for you and begin generating in your own right.
The brain and CNS begin their fundamental training. Only now is the mind ready to absorb large amounts of information without special effort. If we knew these things, we would send children to school after the age of 28.
Complete mental maturation. Unfortunately, at this age, most people have already depleted their essence through emotional, sexual, and mental waste. Cultivating essence becomes critical and urgent.
The next matrices are the Causal, Spiritual, and Atmic (Buddhic), but we will not discuss them here — they are connected to subtler information requiring a special approach. They exist and influence us, growing and crystallizing as we experience life in an increasingly harmonious way.
Sexual energy and money.
Using sexual energy for money and prosperity.
The connection nobody teaches
The first question that arises is: what does sexual energy have to do with money? A legitimate and reasonable question. The answer is as simple as it is complex.
Prosperity is connected to a surplus of energy. Money is nothing more than a form of energy for social exchange. The more sexual energy you produce, the more it can be involved in producing more money. The equation does not lie. Everything is mathematical.
A study published in Scientific Reports (Nature, 2015) involving 142 participants in a trading environment: individual endogenous cortisol levels predict financial instability and increased risk-taking. University of Cambridge (Frontiers in Behavioral Neuroscience, 2018): “Both testosterone and cortisol have major effects on financial decision-making, closely linked to their primary biological functions.” In practice: manage sexual energy well → manage testosterone well → make better financial decisions.
We were raised with the belief that “money is the root of all evil.” Who says that? The same institution that criminalizes sexuality. That is not a coincidence. Repressing sexual energy is repressing prosperity. If you are ashamed of your sexual energy, you will also be ashamed to charge what you are worth. The mechanism is identical.
“If you beg, the Universe sees you have nothing and gives you nothing. If you give, the Universe sees you have abundance and gives you more. You cannot emit prosperity while thinking you have nothing.”
Bralgei ShackryHow much money can you generate with sexual energy?
Each of us has a different level of energy — and this is something we need to understand. We are not equal when it comes to the level of sexual energy and how much you can generate DAILY. Pay close attention to this. Sexual energy also obeys the laws of the Universe. The law of rhythm shows us that there is always a rise and a fall — every wave looks like a sine curve. Today I may generate one amount and tomorrow I may not be able to generate the same amount.
The rules of money or prosperity
There is a book I recommend with the greatest warmth. A book you read in 3 hours but apply over a lifetime. I too believed this book was easy to apply. It is not. We need guidance and experience. I did not learn how to make money until I had closed 2 businesses.
“The Richest Man in Babylon” — George Samuel Clason. The story of a slave who became the richest man in Babylon. A book you read in a few hours, yet it may take a lifetime to understand and apply.
The balance of the 3 consumers
Like a three-legged stool: if you pour all your energy into sex, you do not make money. If you pour all your energy into money and neglect emotions and sexuality, something else breaks. Balance is the key — and it is mathematical. “Lucky in cards, unlucky in love” — a grain of truth. It simply depends on where you are directing your sexual energy.
The 3 golden rules
You cannot be a philosopher on an empty stomach — first satisfy basic needs. But once you exit survival mode, you need a philosophy rooted in respect. A slave can respect themselves. And from the position of a self-respecting slave, freedom and prosperity become possible.
Poverty is a state of mind. Nothing else. The financial level you hold allows you to manage a certain amount of money at any given moment. Without a corresponding financial IQ, money acquired quickly is lost quickly.
Prosperity is like an erection — if you have it, it shows. Prosperous people eat lightly, dress simply, are relaxed, and have time. Do not be stingy — be judicious. Always set aside 10% of what you produce.
Leave generous tips. Be generous — with money, advice, support. Everything is a form of energy that returns. Energy that stands still stagnates. Do not be stingy — be judicious.
The emotional centrifuge
The greatest consumer of sexual energy
Using sexual energy at the emotional levelThe second main direction in which we can invest our sexual energy is emotions. In reality, because we do not understand them, we do not know how to identify them correctly, and we do not know how to respond accordingly, emotions represent the single greatest source of sexual energy waste. All day spinning in the emotional centrifuge — squandering the sexual energy we have available. Then we wonder why we cannot make money.
E-motion describes perfectly what emotional energy is: Energy in Motion. The problem is that if this energy is spinning in circles, we produce nothing constructive. We are just running like a hamster in a wheel.
Emotions are frequencies chemically coded into the human body. The hypothalamus, the endocrine and ganglionic systems respond to these frequencies through measurable hormonal cascades. The process is bidirectional: emotions produce hormones, and hormones produce emotions. Elevated cortisol — the primary product of chronic emotional stress — simultaneously suppresses testosterone, HGH, and immunity. Every minute of emotional centrifuge has a measurable biochemical cost.
Children with developed emotional intelligence will become balanced adults — more positive, social, empathetic, and with a greater capacity for adaptation.
- IQ — Intelligence Quotient
- EQ — Emotional Intelligence Quotient
- SQ — Spiritual Intelligence Quotient
- AQ — Adaptability Quotient — the most important today (required by Google, Amazon, Blackrock etc.)
Emotions or Feelings — what is the difference?
Most of us confuse emotions with feelings. In English the two words carry distinct meanings. In reality they are not the same thing, and the difference is enormous from an energetic point of view.
EMOTIONS are energy mentally coded in motion — what we associate with a given frequency. They begin to orbit around us, like a wheel, and consume our energy.
FEELINGS are base frequencies we can identify without the mind — the original codes of states from the emotional plane. Feelings pass through us and move on. Emotions stay and consume. The difference is enormous from an energetic standpoint.
How do you identify emotions?
We identify emotions inside the body. The idea that you can block emotions is false. The frequency of feelings and emotions is far too subtle to prevent them from passing through or impacting us. What you do with the emotional information, however, is an entirely different story. You cannot feel emotions outside the body. You cannot have an external scanner. The scanner is the body itself. It is internal. That is where we can identify them and act accordingly.
The emotional map
What does the emotional map mean and how can we use it as a navigation guide in life? The explanation of this map — which is a great secret — will be done within the course through examples and oral references.
The 4 stages of change
Identify the internal and external stimuli that generate states: frustration, fear, anxiety, joy, jealousy, envy, pain. Write them down.
The click happens. You understand that ALL these stimuli are connected to ME. To no one else. Only once you become aware of something can you act.
You do something concrete OR you detach from people, problems, states, images, objects, places. You cultivate THE STATE OF THE OBSERVER.
Change appears as the resultant of the previous steps. It is not an action in itself — it is the natural consequence of the 3 stages applied correctly.
The fundamental wounds
These are deeply imprinted base states within our matrices that keep us at a low frequency and in an infinite loop of energy consumption. Shame and guilt, together with fear, form a trio that keeps human consciousness at the lowest possible frequency.
The first and most important. Something wants to surface but cannot. Everything starts from here.
Repression leads to denial. You refuse to see what is right in front of you.
Together with guilt and fear — a trio that keeps consciousness at low frequencies.
Shame produces rejection. A defense mechanism with an enormous energetic cost.
You feel inferior for actions you have taken. A parasitic emotional drain.
The result of all the others. You separate from others, from yourself, from your own energy.
Practical tools for identifying emotions
I found it very useful to learn a simple method for identifying and testing emotions. It is the muscle resistance test, or kinesiology test. The muscle has no mind and because of this quality it cannot lie. It is a very practical technique accessible to anyone. Within the course: bringing emotions to the surface, releasing repressed emotions, and verifying states.
Sexual energy and physical love.
The third direction of expression of sexual energy is sexual activity itself and the more subtle forms into which it can transform and alchemize. Tens of thousands of years of repression and erroneous coding of sexual practices have produced deep wounds in our genetic matrix.
The greatest sexual organ is THE BRAIN. Emotions are the engine of sexuality — the Yin part. Sex itself is mental — Yang. These forces complement and move each other, propelling every system in the Universe forward from an evolutionary standpoint — including the Human being.
Study published in Sexual Medicine Reviews (2025): orgasm involves a complex circuit of dopamine, oxytocin, and endogenous opioids. Oxytocin (the connection hormone) is released in large quantities — and its neural circuits overlap directly with those of social and financial reward. Healthy and balanced sexuality literally calibrates the brain’s reward system for all other activities in life.
The 4 octaves of love
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01Animal sexuality and reproduction
The most basic level — instinctive, animal, oriented toward multiplication. Primary, unrefined energy. Most people remain at this octave their entire lives.
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02Eroticism and sensuality
The refinement of the sexual act through the play of the senses and the preparation of space and all 5 senses. More refined, conscious energy. Reach this octave and the quality of your sexual life transforms radically.
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03Unconditional love
Transcending the ego and personal needs. The pure connection between two beings. The solar energy of the heart that asks for nothing and places no conditions.
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04Compassion and Ecstasy
The superior octave — the love that transcends the individual and extends toward all beings. This state is described by mystics from all traditions as the source of boundless creativity.
Favourable: morning between 05:00–07:00 / evening between 19:00–21:00 / on a new moon / 2 weeks before menstruation.
To avoid: on a full stomach / in states of anger or extreme fatigue / immediately after energy therapies or acupuncture / on a full moon (energy at maximum, risk of destabilization for the uninitiated).
The course contains a complete 18+ chapter with all the detailed rules for favourable sexual activity and what to avoid.
Practical tools.
How to cultivate the essence.
We have a limited prenatal energy. This is the ESSENCE. When you are born you have a limited quantity available. This can be maintained and cultivated — or squandered. The choice is yours. There are schools and families that have received careful education in this direction and have kept the tradition alive. Tantric schools, Taoist schools, longevity practices — all speak about the same thing in different languages.
Napoleon Hill introduced the concept of sexual transmutation in Think and Grow Rich (1937): sexual energy rechanneled becomes creativity, ambition, and productivity. Roberto Assagioli (Psychosynthesis, 1975): “Transmuted sexual energies reach higher levels and lend them additional vitality and intensity.” Recent neuroscientific studies confirm: periods of heightened sexual energy coincide with explosions of creativity — both activate the mesolimbic dopaminergic systems. Geniuses with intense sexual energy: Leonardo da Vinci, Nikola Tesla, Beethoven. This is not a coincidence.
Preparing the room for erotic and sexual activity — stimulating the 5 senses
The environment in which this activity takes place is critically important. Information received from masters and from Tibetan, Taoist, and Tantric traditions unanimously states that all the senses are involved in erotic and sexual activity and therefore all of them need to be nourished.
Practical techniques
Techniques for recovering essence through breathing. Fire Breathing and Soul Breathing activate the energy circuit and redistribute CHI throughout the body. Personally tested practices developed over 30+ years of work with masters from China.
The Taoist practice of conserving sexual essence. Includes abstinence, continence, and the Eagle — one of the most advanced techniques for recovering essence and activating the thymus circuit, which confers health and youth.
Zero Point Meditation activates the thymus circuit and gives the body health and youth. A foundational practice in cultivating sexual energy and longevity. Individual and group sessions available on bralgei.com.
Brené Brown’s framework: Boundaries, Reliability, Accountability, Vault, Integrity, Non-Judgement, Generosity. The emotional foundation without which the cultivation of sexual energy remains incomplete.
Chang-Zhang, Ling-Kung-Jing, Tensegrity (Castaneda’s technique) — systems for amplifying and redistributing sexual energy. Practiced in authentic traditions under the guidance of masters or qualified instructors.
David R. Hawkins — The Eye of the I. The logarithmic map: a practical instrument for navigating energetic states and identifying the frequency level at which your energy is operating today.
The alchemy of sexual energy.
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